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Just a nice guy

Thanks for looking over this profile. Up front, I'm 49yo, 5'10" and 250#. I've finally managed to grab ahold of the weight issue and am (thankfully) reversing it. There's hope on the horizon for me. While I've been side-lined due to some injuries from deployment and training with the Army, I'm at least back to a swimming, biking, walking routine with intent to get back to my fighting weight! (Cue Rocky Theme music.)

I'd like to think that I have a simple but warm heart although I am multi-faceted, ambitions, complex, dynamic, & still growing. I'm honest, sincere, & a genuinely nice guy still trying to live life a by a Boy Scout's ideals. I'm a spiritual person---raised Christian but have fallen away from attending church regularly. These facets continue to develop for me, and it would be great to find people with whom I can share spirituality (wherever that mutual ground intersects).

I'm a masculine guy---idealistic, versatile, energetic, athletic, & humorous. I love anything outdoors especially the mountains, oceans, FALL & SNOW. I am educated & continue to pursue various education. I am sensitive (sometimes vulnerable), active, artistic & adventurous. I like to envision myself as a patriotic country-guy with a sense of sophistication & style--again, a forever Boy Scout. I can be a little naïve (sometimes) but am generally nostalgic, sincere, sentimental & driven--broad of thought & vision--I am always seeking growth.

My interests revolve around the concepts of being out doors, and spiritual, intellectual, emotional & physical healthy living. I used to run & bike along my country roads, but some injuries from military life (and age) have taken a toll on my mobility over the last couple of years. My usual exercise 'verve' has been hampered. BUT though I am down, I am not out--I haven't given up the fight. Life is settling again and I'm retraining to regain the form I once had. Time, effort, and my will to achieve will tell...

I also enjoy school & nights out to various city & cultural activities. Not much interested in clubs or bars as smoke is dismal and the ability to simply converse is impeded. But I'm certainly not opposed to hitting a sports bar or western club on occasion---or better yet, go dancing.

I am a passionate, tender, loyal romantic who likes searing, moonlit skies with crisped, jagged stars & a man's hand in mine to keep one another warm. I value & respect the arts, freedom, intelligence, wisdom, commonsense, humility as well as subtle boldness, virility, integrity, honesty, dignity, capability, humor, tenderness, teaching, talent, communication, strong-wills, independence, conviction, masculinity & a sense of right and wrong. Sexuality is NOT my 'lifestyle.' I'm a normal man with every day concerns, joys, grief, & needs.

In the meantime, I'm just looking to date and meet some nice guys for friendship, social-activities and companionship. I'm looking for guys who are similar to me in that they have no difficulty determining their masculinity and that they also just happen to be attracted to other men. Ideally & eventually, I'd like to find a man who understands piety & has a reverence for God and a loving respect for family.

I think the person with whom I'd most enjoy sharing much of my time is a man whose mind & personality are as dynamic as his smile & shoulders broad. I am attracted to men who are active in this life--in the out-door life--with sports; nature; earth; land; air; sea. But not necessarily someone in fit-perfection. Lord knows I'm not though I try to stay physically healthy & active. Personality and contemplative thought are also attractive. Challenge my perceptions, opinions, and views--I'm interested to know and learn.

So, if to you, sitting down and sharing stories; warm mugs of drink; moon rises and falls; and the joys and stresses of day-to-day living mean sustenance for your soul; if your someone who seeks to be respected and respects the person you're with; if you like to hug--then send a message. Let's see if we have the makings for a friendship.

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Sex Preferences

I preferVersatile
I'm aMilitary
DemeanorMasculine
HIV StatusNegative

Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
BuildA few extra pounds
Height178 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Long
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedYes
My AttractivenessAverage

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNot sure
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsAlone
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationUniversity Masters
SpecialtyMedical / Health
Employment StatusFull-time
Job TitlePsychiatric Nurse Practitoner; Educator; MAJ (ret)

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchThe man who makes my heart, mind, and spirit hum whether he's near or far.
Our first dateConversation and sensing.